the regina mom gives thanks this weekend for all the women who work to make this world a better place, be that in the world at large, in the home and community or within herself.
There’s a global war on women.
Even though we women make up 52 per cent of the global population and we own only one per cent of the land, we survive.
Even though climate change impacts women around the world more harshly (try gathering wood, food, water in a drought zone or flood zone every day), we survive.
Even though we earn 73 per cent the wages of men and are over-represented in part-time, low-pay jobs, and even though the world economies once counted us as chattel and told us our work was not work, we survive.
Even though cooking, cleaning and caregiving, the three Cs of women’s work, are worth between $234 and $374 billion in labour that remains unpaid, and even though we never received the national childcare program we were promised and yet we still find time to fill the gaps when governments offload services onto communities and families, we survive.
Even though, right here in Saskatchewan, one child in five — a full 20 per cent — live without adequate food, shelter and clothing, and even though more than 43,000 of our children live in poverty and 60 per cent of children living in households headed by a lone woman live in poverty, and children around the world continue to live in deep poverty, we survive.
Even though governments dismally fail to acknowledge our inequality, respect our issues — or even hear our voices — and instead, privatize economic decision-making, grant corporations more rights and less taxes, doctor documents, cut funding to programs, close doors to our organizations, oppose same sex marriages, peel back our reproductive rights, ignore our human rights, spurn and deride us, tell us to “go slowly,” that we’re “too radical” and dismiss us as “dumb bitches” or “Feminazis,” we survive.
Even though violence against us is epidemic the world over — we are assaulted emotionally, psychologically, physically, sexually — even though 50 per cent of us will experience violence to our person in our lifetime and we have sisters, daughters, grand-daughters who are treated as illegal goods to be trafficked and sold into sexual slavery, and even though we are stoned to death, gunned down, disappeared or murdered, we survive.
Even though we live our lives in the global war waged against us right here and right now, as it has for centuries — even though we die daily, we survive.
We survive because we are strong.
We are strong because we are one community. We are one community with a diverse population: women of colour, Indigenous, Métis women, who have immigrated, emigrated, who are refugees, who are urban, rural, peasant, homeless women, are mothers, grandmothers, child-free, who are sex workers, waged workers, volunteer workers, who are lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, queer, are religious, atheist, agnostic, spiritual, women with disabilities, healing powers, visions, who are older, younger, middle-aged…
We survive because we are coming to know the power of diversity, to know our power as women. And we know that our time to wield power is at hand. Watch us.
c. Bernadette Wagner
cityprole
/ October 7, 2012Thank you..you’ve expressed my feelings precisely..
And those of us ‘lucky’ enough to live in democracies can only be the more horrified that in supposedly enlightened places such as ours, the violence, prejudice and legal system all seem to be conspiring together to keep us down..
Brenda Schmidt
/ October 7, 2012Thank you for all your good words and good work.
the regina mom
/ October 8, 2012Thank you for reading and commenting! It’s nice to know I’m not posting into a vacuum.
lagatta à montréal
/ October 9, 2012Lovely piece. My only disagreement is that we are not all one community. Angela Merkel, nein, Hillary Clinton, nope, old Maggie Thatcher, never was. Nor Rona Ambrose…
I was heartened to see the demands of the Bread and Roses and World March of Women movemens not only taken up but radicalised by the kids demonstrating here in recent months. Les filles really put paid to the idea that feminism was a 1970s relic.
ruth stevenson
/ October 9, 2012Great commentary. Thanks for posting it. We do survive only by accepting diversity and loving always.